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it’s not about you: on fan entitlement and the myth of “taking opportunities”
This is an essay about limited resources. About spending your money how you want. And, ultimately, about kpop. But before I can talk about kpop, I have to talk about other things—so here we go. My mom died seven months ago. Sometimes I still don’t believe it. At least once a day, I’m struck by the realization. Sometimes it’s something that reminds me of her, but more often than not, it’s seemingly random. The first day after she died was the worst. But by the funeral, I felt

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